Pretty much all moms get frustrated with toy clutter.
I thought a group toy box under their bed and some additional personal toys kept in their own personal spaces would be okay, but we ran into a couple big problems.
(1) No one took responsibility for the clean up of the ‘group’ toys and (2) each hoarded so much in their personal space, they couldn’t fit it all in!
I’ve downsized enough that I did not want to get rid of more of their toys at this time. (Though maybe in a couple months…) However, I did need to remove them from the stress of every day!
A friend said she had taken away all but a few of her kids’ toys until they learned to be responsible enough to clean them up.
This seemed like a great idea. Here’s how it worked for us.
I taped numbered cards on the floor and let each child pick out his or her favorite 10 toys.
Here are pictures of the toys that they picked.
The top picture is of my 4 year old son’s toys.
Finally the 18 month old’s.
The rest went into a big box which I hid away in the basement.
If the child wants a toy from the box, he or she has to trade one of his or her ‘special ten.’ The only one who has done this has been my oldest. The girls don’t seem to remember the other toys even exist.
I also took the opportunity to pick out a few car toys that stay in the car. This was a brilliant move!
In the last 2 months, my son has ended up with more like 20 toys. He’s proven himself responsible and always cleans them up. Since he wants to keep his 20 toys. the system has motivated him to be more responsible! My 3 year old still has about 10 which fit easily in her personal basket, and my 18 month old has about 7. Toy clutter has become almost nonexistent.
Beyond this I keep toy sets locked in two cabinets, but I’m the only one with access to them.
There you have it! This is the system that has worked for us!